ZiFM presenter It took me 6 years. 6 years of abuse. I got beaten. I got cheated on numerous times. I got treated like I was nothin...
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It took me 6 years. 6 years of abuse. I got beaten. I got cheated on numerous times. I got treated like I was nothing. But I stayed. Why? I loved him. And everytime after the abuse he would tell me he didn't mean it. And I believed him. For 6 years.— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
From then on it was hell. I knew about all his other girls. But funnily enough he only hit me when he was drunk. Never sober. Sometimes he wouldn't even remember. Do you know how much that hurts?— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
So many incidents. One time he pushed me out of a moving car. One time he attacked me and it took 2 of his friends to get him off me. One time he punched me face coz I tried to get him to get out the car and make him sleep in his room. He doesn't remember any of this. Nothing.— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
Then one time he got so mad at me for confronting him about another girl, he dumped me outside his house. Outside. No keys. It was winter. I slept outside on the floor. He pitched up next morning opened the house and left. Came back later drunk and hit me for not cooking.— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
I loved him. I was naive. All my friends begged me to leave him. I ignored them all. I kept saying he will change. He never changed. He never changed. I remember Soko once said to me Kuda this guy will kill you one day. I'll never forget that.— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
But I managed to leave. I got up and left. I just went quiet for like 2 weeks. He also went quiet. Came back and acted like nothing happened. Hanzi I miss you. Told him to fuck off. Do you know how hard that was? It took a big chunk of me to do that. But it had to be done— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
But I got over it. Till yesterday. I got triggered. By one of his friends who claims he didn't know anything about it. I broke down. My heart broke. He fucking knew but he's got the audacity to lie to me.— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
I got pushed out of a moving car. Do you have any idea how scary that was? He said get out. Middle of nowhere. Opened the door pushed me out. Landed on my face. He stopped. Came back put me in the car and acted like nothing happened. I survived that.— Kuda Dzenga (@LadyKuda) 19 May 2018
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